What does true friendship really entail?
Is it all about sharing and helping one another even if not requested to? Is it about sharing both material and non-material things? Is it about hanging out together? They say friendship is a two-way traffic; it only operates when both parties actively take part, but I think it’s entails more. If one person does the large part in cultivating for friendship with the other doing very less or nothing at all in return, this could better be called grant, or such.What do Best friends do for one another?
A true friend offers assistance, shares materials and ideas and supports you whenever he/she can. They motivate and inspire you, tries to guide where they can and comfort you when sad. They stand with you even when others turn against or turn away from you. They pray for you and assist when they see you suffer; actually, they do suffer with you!Good friends notify one another on a potential danger or risk. They work together to overcome an issue affecting one of them. They protect one another from dangers and risks. They do trust one another and never betray either. They excuse themselves and say sorry when they do wrong.
Best true friends dedicate their time for each other even when they are busy. They really understand, love and respect one another, and are always willing and ready to help. They even help you raise your self-esteem and self-confidence.
“They do not love you the way you are, they love you for who you are!”
I say!
And how would you identify a real good friend?
A good friend is always there for you and ready to help when need be; and you don’t have to ask them. They do not pretend to be together when you are in green pastures and run when drought comes. They are there with and for you- come rain come sun, not ready to leave you.True friends try to avoid conflicts but still stand for what they believe- that’s why they may sometimes disagree. They share everything they can even in conversations and they don’t hide some things. They tell the truth even when it hurts. They speak their mind and share even the less important and funny things in their lives.
A wise note towards true friendship!
When choosing a good friend, ask God to help you choose the right one. The one that will never deceive, betray or leave you. The one that will complement you, help you achieve your dreams and move on with a happy life.When you got a good friend, work to maintain them. Have time with them, do the necessary and actively play your part. If you don’t have one, try to find one; it’s very crucial to have a good friend by your side.
But again, when you choose to trust someone, remember that every betrayal starts with trust. So, you need to take extra care whenever you are in friendship. Pray God to help and guide you to do that. It’s not an easy task to identify how, but it’s very wise for a great long happy life.
Give thanks for good friendships, cultivate for them and do whatever it takes to maintain them forever. You can end up enjoying life to the fullest and suffering less. You can easily be able to attain your dreams and life desires- which is all we seek for.
That’s my advice and thought on true good friendship forever!
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