Welcome to my blog. Today, I want to talk about fear and why you
should avoid it to achieve your life goals and desires. Being courageous
helps you to take risks and make tough decisions in life. Your
curiosity and fearlessness makes you achieve your life goals and reach
places nobody thought you never will. Read the post to get full
motivation and inspiration…
In this world and time,
most people are afraid to achieve their dreams since they feel that they don’t
deserve them, or they are too huge for them to achieve. They become fearful
just thinking of their loved ones who passed away, moments that could have been
good but were otherwise, or treasures that might have been found but were
forever hidden in the sands. This causes them terrible sufferance in their
hearts and hinders them from achieving their life desires & goals. However,
you should never fear to try and do things that could possibly make your life
better and happier.
Open your eyes wide to
see the reality around you, rather than just assuming it’s the way you think.
Don’t bind your thoughts to one particular thing or place. The world is so huge
and ideas are infinite. You just need to do the right research & meditate
deeply to unveil what’s been hidden even to the wise and prudent. Don’t fear or
worry about a thing, cause every little thing is soon going to be alright (as
Bob Marley said in “Three Little Birds”).
Don’t be afraid to walk
away from things that don’t matter, because then you will have time for the
things that do.
Remember that you are
beautifully made, you’re worthy and enough to do anything that your mind tells
you to do. Moreover, you don’t have to get assistance, you are already enough.
Just do all that it takes, and you will make it.
Never fear walking alone,
it’s much better than walking with a crowd moving in the wrong direction. Trust
your conscience; believe me, it will lead you to unimagined destinations. In
fact, the strongest man is he who walks alone (those who fly solo have the
strongest wings). And if you don’t use your mind to achieve your goals, others
will hire you to help them achieve theirs.
Come out of your comfort
zone and you will definitely realize that it wasn’t comfortable at all.
Wake up early, give
thanks for the new day and then plan your activities before you begin. Maximize
the utilization of your time and resources. Take those risks. Risking has two
possible outcomes: you can succeed and gain what you expected, or you can learn
one way NOT to do it next time. And when you try it again afterward, you are
most likely to succeed in achieving your goals.
Don’t overstress yourself
for things you can’t change or control. Be brave enough to shake them off, let
them go. If you lost a loved one, their memories can always linger in your
mind. But you have to accept that they are gone forever and aren’t coming back
so that you can be able to move on with your life. Actually, that’s where we
are all headed at last. So it isn’t a thing to overstress us for long.
In addition, don’t
overstress yourself over the things that you didn’t do/achieve. Now is the time
to make them right. As I have said above, failure means you learned and you now
have the skills to do it right. So, do it instead of stressing yourself. If
it’s a mistake you did, you got to forgive yourself to cleanse your soul and
mind. Don’t be a prisoner of your history. Forget the mistake and remember the
lesson. This is the ONLY way you can move on well and succeed in life.
Some people even fear to
attempt new things because they fear what people will say about it. Your life
is yours, not theirs. If you don’t get what you want, no one can get it for
you. Besides, people will always talk; whether you suffer, succeed, live, or
die. Therefore, don’t live your life striving to impress others. Live your life
for yourself.
You got to change and if
you don’t, overstressing will only lead you to depression. Change the way you
think by reading many different perspectives from diverse people whom you wish
to resemble. See what and how they do their things to be the way they are. Set
your goals with strategies to achieve them. Learn every day to find a better
way to do your things. Then, fearlessly & cautiously approach your goals,
and if you don’t fear or lose hope, you will certainly succeed.
Believe: You can start
with nothing and out of nothing, and a way will be made. You just need the
courage to start. Once you start, you will learn as you possibly earn. Employ
hard work and persistence without fear. And soon or later, you will bear the
name “Successful” man or woman.
Tell your heart that the
fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. Additionally, no heart
has ever suffered when searching to reach its dreams. This is because each
moment of the search is a second’s encounter with God and eternity.
Note that fear kills more
dreams than failure ever will. And the road of your life is yours alone. Even
if others may walk it with you, no one can walk it for you. So, you better be curious and keep your head
up high. Use your time well and you will achieve the good results you are
looking for. Remember that if you don’t go for it, you will never have it. And
once you become fearless, your life becomes limitless.
What would you attempt if
you knew you could never fail? That’s what you should do without fearing
failure. Go for it NOW! Because whether you tried or not, time will pass
anyway. And don’t fear to invest your resources and money. If the opportunity
has lucrative possibilities, go for it.
The money you fear to
invest will still be used in other ways, mostly for getting short-term
happiness or comfort. But if you invest, it has the potential to care for you
for more days or even the rest of your life (for example investing in affiliate
or online marketing, and foreign exchange businesses).
If you have the capital,
just search for a great opportunity proved to pay many people good money. Learn
how to go about it, even if it means paid training. Then, purchase the
membership and work hard to make it earn you more money. Then and there, you
will have acquired a passive income source for yourself and probably your
dreams – if that’s what you wanted.
Every change starts with a simple decision to start. You know who you
are and what you want. Whatever you’ve decided to do, you better start
it now. Never say tomorrow or allow waiting to become your habit.
Believe in yourself, live your dreams, work hard and take risks, because
life is happening NOW!
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Many people do not know what exactly to do to succeed in their career. It’s not an easy task to climb up the ladder, but it all starts with you. You start by evaluating yourself, and then set goals with strategies to meet them. It takes self-determination and dedication to meet your goals.
Growth and success is a result of hard work (in activities) and there is no development physically or intellectually without effort; and effort means work. So the greatest role to play in order to succeed in everything you do is inputting the greatest effort in your area of concern and soon you will realize the progress.
There are five steps which foster the process of career success. Following these steps is a wise decision that will lead you to what you’ve been looking for, which is success.
1) Evaluate your Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats (SWOTs).
This is the very first step to take in order to succeed. It means assessing yourself to realize what you have and what you don’t have. It is examining your Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats (SWOTs) that surround you. By this, you get to know what you can do and your dis-functionalities which may slow down your progress.
You could find out that you have not been planning the right way, or you have been wasting a lot of time doing less-meaningful things away from your vision. This calls you to sharpen and fully utilize your strengths as you improve your weaknesses.
At the same time, you need to be aware of the opportunities around you and see if you can be able to create one for yourself. Keep searching for available opportunities as you brainstorm and think outside the box to come up with new activities to engage in, that can possibly lead you to success.
Additionally, awareness of the potential threats present in your area of interest helps you to think and plan on methods to face or neutralize them in case they occur. This way, you increase your focus and objectivity. When you have fully evaluated your SWOTs, you can then proceed to the next step, which is goal-setting.
2) Set your goals.
This is the time for setting your desired results for your activities. Setting goals and objectives helps you to direct all (or most of) your efforts and resources towards achieving the goal. Whether you work in affiliate marketing, a business person or any other industry, your target should be achievable and realistic.
At the same time, you should set them as high as you can imagine so that if you don’t reach them, at least you will be near and will have achieved something good. As they say, ‘land to the stars if you don’t reach the sun and moon’.
As you do this, you need to consider all possible pre-defined social, political and economic issues which may pull you back or hinder you from achieving your goals, either directly or indirectly. Also, you need to set the time schedule required to achieve your goals. This helps you to remain focused and determined as you perform your activities because you won’t want to be caught by time. You can set short-time goals such as weekly, monthly, quarterly, half or one full year goals, or long-term goals that might go for several years.
Goal-setting is a very crucial step in every development which creates basis for the activities for the activities required in order to succeed. Then, proceed to the next step.
3) Strategize (Plan).
Now, you need to plan on the methods that you require to use in order to achieve your set goals and objectives. It’s wise to identify several methods or activities which could possibly lead you to succeed in your area of concern. Consider their availability and cost, and then go for the cheapest and one that you think you are more convenient with.
Set plans on each activity with the time required to accomplish it. Plan your work and work your plans. Strategize on how your activities follow each other and also come up with ways to improve them as you proceed.
Also, consider the potential threats that may arise as you progress and plan on how to face them in case they happen. When you have chosen the method best suitable for you, then you can go ahead and identify the resources you need in the fourth step.
4) Identify the resources.
This starts with identifying the resources needed to achieve the set goal, as well as those available to you. Get to know all materials that you may require for you to achieve the goals that you’ve set. Examine their cost and the availability or sources from which you can get them. Again, go for the ones that you can afford. But do not stress yourself for lacking the reach of these resources. Use the ones that are available and those that will not leave you hungry.
Take this note;- you could get assistance from family, friends or any other source, but do not go for a loan when you have not fully analyzed or evaluated your project and have enough confidence that it will be a success. Loans can make you bankrupt in several hours. When you are done with all these, now align the resources with the plan in the next step.
5) Alignment.
This is the last step that will lead you to achieving what you ought to. Implement the strategies you’ve set in step 3 above using the resources that you identified in the previous step. This is the actual work now.
Engage in the activities you identified previously being keener on time management which happens to be the major cause of failure of a well-planned project. Make sure you do not harm anyone through whatever you might be doing. Stay focused and determined to achieve your set goals. Neglect those activities that push you against your vision.
In case of pessimistic friends, never pay attention to them as you may end up wasting a lot of precious time and this would possibly lead you to failure. Alignment of the strategies and resources with a great focus on the set goals and objectives will definitely impart great success to you.
And when you have achieved what you wished/planned for, do not be selfish; remember you can’t live in this world alone. So, share with those who need it the most. Do not let someone suffer when you know you can help. This makes your life more meaningful as a human and impresses our creator, who in turn blesses you more and more. Be happy with what you have achieved and share with those who do not have- even if it’s an idea.
In Conclusion,
The one and only addition to the above is putting your creator first. God is our creator and praying, worshiping and praising Him are great ways to say thank you to Him. He sees us and knows what we are composing in our minds. And I suppose that He is the source of the positive ideas in our minds. He helps us to cope with problems and overcome threats surrounding us. I found it very wise to give thanks, glory and praise Him always and I believe He is always with me even in difficult times. Only He has the capability of blessing who do positive things and curse/punish those who do not obey His commands. So, stay positive and never harm others with your actions.
This way, you will find yourself in places you never even dreamt of. You will succeed in whatever you do. Remember, what your mind can conceive, you can achieve it. Stay determined, focused, hardworking and positive. You will never regret in life.
I like to see you succeed in life as you inspire and awaken those around you. Sharing this post is a way of inspiring our beloved brothers and sisters, for a better tomorrow. Also, your comments and/or queries are warmly welcomed.
Thank you and May God bless you as you apply this in your lives.
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